Communication Matters

Duck and Cover……okay, that was once how Ted had to respond to my communication. Oh, yes, I was a thrower. In the first year of our relationship, I am not sure how many things or what I threw, but I know whenever a discussion wasn’t going my way I would throw something. During one of [...]

Friendship Matters

“Friends are not primarily absorbed in each other. It is when we are doing things together that friendship springs up—painting, sailing ships, praying, philosophizing, fighting shoulder to shoulder. Friends look in the same direction.” CS Lewis I love my marriage and will admit the hardest part is nurturing a friendship with my husband. I want [...]

Sex Matters

We had been married almost three years. You would have thought we had dealt with some of our past relationships. Maybe it was because we had started talking about having children. To be honest I am not completely sure why. But, in what seemed like an overnight change in attitude, Ted couldn’t forgive me for [...]